5 Reasons Why your Dog May Not Be Welcome on the Bed
Have you ever noticed when dogs sleep on your bed, they usually lay right between your legs and put you in the most uncomfortable positions? However, I have to go on record saying that I love when my boarders sleep in our bed with us. Of course they can’t all sleep on our bed that’s why I have my two boys take some of the dogs. They actually fight over which dog will get to sleep with them.
With that said, not all dogs are good candidates for sleeping on the human bed.
5 good reasons why Fido may not be welcome on the bed:
Excessive licking! I’ve been woken up by the wonderful sound (not) of a dog licking their paws or other areas! Bigger dogs can even rock the bed back and forth. Stress, boredom or a medical problem can lead to excessive licking. Elicit the help of a professional dog behaviorist, vet or trainer that can help you with this problem. Usually a good nudge will stop them.
Small Bladder Some dogs can’t or won’t hold their bladder the entire night. This too could be caused by a medical condition such as a Urinary Tract Infection/Bladder Infection. Also, young puppies have a hard time holding their bladder. Either way, you can get up a couple times a night or a better idea would be to put them in a crate or enclosed in an area with a gate preferably on tile and maybe with some pee pads. Of course you’ll need a soft, comfortable dog bed for Fido to sleep on.
Nervous, fidgety or hyper behavior. Sometimes when we get a new dog boarding with us, they can be nervous, and it’s hard for them to settle down. They jump on and off the bed and roam aimlessly around the house. Both of those actions make it hard for me to sleep especially if I don’t know what the dog is up to as they check out the house all night! They usually calm down the second night, but a crate may be an option in this case also. If your dog does this every night, he may not be getting enough exercise during the day. Make sure they go to the dog park or get a nice, long walk everyday.
Old, Injury or weak hindquarters when my late dog got older, she no longer could jump on the bed with us. It was a sad transition for us and we really missed her being close. Dog leg injuries or other medical conditions can also prevent them from jumping up and down on the bed or other furniture. Please consult your vet in these situations. Again, make the transition smoother by getting them proper bedding and put it close to you on the floor so they know you’re not too far away.
Aggression towards you or your bed partner. I’ve heard many stories about dogs that won’t let your spouse near you and will growl and/or try to bite. According to Pat Miller, CPDT and training editor of the Whole Dog Journal, Never punish your dog for growling. Punishment is likely to make his behavior worse because your aggression will add to his stress. This doesn’t mean they are automatically banished from the bed, but you will need to bring in a professional that can help you counter condition this behavior. Tread carefully on this one you don’t want to make the situation worse.
So, if you do have kick Fido off the bed, please make sure you get them a good, comfortable dog bed that fits them properly. If your dog likes to stretch out, buy a little bigger bed than needed. I know money is tight these days, but this isn’t where your want to scrimp. If you’ve ever slept on an uncomfortable bed, you know how important it is to sleep in comfort especially for those older or injured dogs.